What are you learning from your Pain?

Pain instructs. I believe God allowed pain to instruct us. It wasn’t his first choice. He is not sadistic to choose pain as an instructor. His first choice was obedience. God’s best plan has always been that we learn by listening to Him and obeying His instructions. The fallen state of man however, makes it…

Consider Jesus…

We all owe it to ourselves to look carefully at this man Jesus. Who did He say He is? How does who He is and what He said affect my life today?

When you think Love is a feeling

The quality of any relationship is not determined by the intensity of the flutter in your stomach. It is determined by how much of the person you can stomach when the butterflies are NOT fluttering.

Beating Shame

Shame is defined as a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behaviour. From my experience (personally and pastorally) I have found that when shame matures, it goes beyond being a feeling of humiliation that passes, as most feelings do. It becomes a force that seeks to shape our…

How to make an impact this year

Acts 20:35 I have shown you in every way, by laboring like this, that you must support the weak. And remember the words of the Lord Jesus, that He said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’” Notice that there is a comparison between two options; giving and receiving. None of these are…

The Blessing of ignorant friends

We often believe that people who have not been through what we have been through, have nothing of value to say to us. Afterall, they don’t understand! How can anyone help if they don’t understand? There is truth in that. A lot of truth actually. When you cannot comprehend another person’s pain, suffering or even…

Communicating right

Christmas is a time when many of us get to interact with family members, friends and colleagues a bit more than we do all year round. Here is some helpful information about communcation that can save you a lot of arguments in this season! James 1:19 Understand this, my beloved brethren. Let every man be…

FaceTime with Him

Every thing good which we’ll ever need as an human being, physical, emotional, social, financial, and mentally is found in God. The reason we experience lack is a disconnection from God, the source of provision. We experience death because of a disconnection from God who is life. This disconnection happened in Adam. The moment he…

A miracle in the mundane

We don’t always get spectacular, miraculous moments. But we ALWAYS get the mundane! Sleep, eat, rave repeat…in a loop. Most of us are are not often thankful for the mundane routines of life because it’s mundane! Truth is you don’t always need a miracle and a spectacle to change your future because most times everything…