Marriage: Headship & Submission

A good woman has no problem submitting to a dead man! đź‘€


When Relationships End, Did I waste my time doing good?

When our relationships end or when they are threatened, one of the common sources of hurt is linked to the fact that we feel that all of the good we invested in that relationship is wasted. This thought really hurts. I think it’s very important to get a God perspective in the midst of our hurt, otherwise we could make choices that continue the cycle of hurt. 

When you think Love is a feeling

The quality of any relationship is not determined by the intensity of the flutter in your stomach. It is determined by how much of the person you can stomach when the butterflies are NOT fluttering.

The Blessing of ignorant friends

We often believe that people who have not been through what we have been through, have nothing of value to say to us. Afterall, they don’t understand! How can anyone help if they don’t understand? There is truth in that. A lot of truth actually. When you cannot comprehend another person’s pain, suffering or even…

Communicating right

Christmas is a time when many of us get to interact with family members, friends and colleagues a bit more than we do all year round. Here is some helpful information about communcation that can save you a lot of arguments in this season! James 1:19 Understand this, my beloved brethren. Let every man be…

Sometimes, stop & weep

We deal with all kinds of things that keep us awake early in the morning. Some are important, truthfully, some are absolute trash. But in all these things. I pray we learn to stop, and weep with those who weep. And rejoice with those who rejoice.

The Key to healthy relationships 

There are so many battles we face in our relationships that can literally be shut down and won by one or two unkind words!  Yet if we are really after authentic relationships and authentic fulfilment, we will need to resist the temptation to say/type/write unkind words.  Speaking an unkind word in some circumstances can be…